REV. FR PETER OBIDI
Birth: I was born to
the family of late N.Dr Obidi Eziekwe of Umunnebo Dusogu Awkuzu on 31st
December 1956, the very month and year he took the Noble Traditional Ozo title,
and he named me Ozokwelu.
Early
Childhood:
My father suffered the devastating loss of his only sibling – Nwankwo Eziekwe
and his four sons in early fifties at Jos, to the deadly disease small pox.
This bitter experience changed his mind about western education and going
abroad. He made up his mind that no child of his would go to school. Indeed he
firmly believed that his late brother Nwankwo reincarnated in me. His deep
pagan belief made him resist vehemently all the repeated persuasions to allow
me to go to school by the members of the RCM and CMS as that period was the time the RCM and CMS teams were moving around campaigning and
capturing children to join their schools and churches. My father rejected all
of them.
Closeness
to my Father:
I was very close to my father as his first son, na-eseputa nri na okpesi na ikenga. He taught me many things about
dibia, and language of the native doctors. He taught me etu e si abo iyi uwa. He had every hope that I would take over his
work as a native doctor.
A
Petty Trader:
Since I was not going to school like children of my age, I took to petty
trading. I was carrying earthen pot of water moving around in the market, Nkwo
Awkuzu, selling water with cup to thirsty traders at one penny. From selling
water I saved some money, and I moved into selling matches, bar soap, kerosene,
cigarettes etc. From this I was able to have some pounds in my pocket.
Baptized:
In
1967 I was talked to and convinced by one Mr. Felix Obiadi Nwoye a Legionary.
In “holy disobedience” I followed Mr. Felix and started attending catechism
classes taught by late Rev. Fr John Mary Anojulu on apostolic work at Awkuzu as
a senior seminarian. In the same 1967 I was baptized by Rev. Fr Ferdinand
Ugwueze (late) and I chose the name Peter as my baptismal name.
Thorns
and Huddles: My
father did everything humanly possible to stop me from going to church and
follow him in his native doctor practice. He chased me out of the compound,
many times. I was starved a good number of days as the available food would be
that offered to idol or cooked with the meat offered to idol. He got hold of me
many times and flogged me mercilessly. He hated me with passion. In all those
ordeals I held my new faith, and continue to go to church.
A
Mass Server:
As my father’s hatred and animosity increased, my love for things of God and
church activities increased too. I joined the mass-servers and Legion of Mary.
As a mass-server I was attending morning mass every day and following Fr F.
Ugwueze to outside masses at St Paul’s Aba and Igbariam farm settlement.
In
1968 we were at Ukwulu as war refugees. Even at Ukwulu, I was still a
mass-server following Fr F. Ugwueze to Ukwulu and Igbariam farm helping at mass
with Prof. Fidelis Okafor, the former V.C. of Odumegwu Ojukwu University
Igbariam. He was a seminarian at that time. In 1969 we were at Igbariam town as
war refugees. At Igbariam I was still a mass-server, serving Rev. Fr Charles
Ikeme, an army Chaplin, together with Fr Joseph Ajakor, a senior seminarian
then.
A
War Captive:
In the same 1969 Nigerian troops came to Igbariam town and captured the town,
killed many young men. I was also captured together with everybody in my family
except my mother who was at Anaku that day.
A
War Returnee:
In January 1970 I was back at home. I continued to serve God at his altar. Rev.
Fr Simon Azuka Okafor of Awka Diocese came to Awkuzu on apostolic work as a
senior seminarian. He gathered the mass-servers one morning after mass and said
he would like to see us in school during recess. One of the mass-servers
revealed to him that someone was not going to school. He asked whom the person
was, and I was so ashamed and timid to own up, but went to him later and told
him my ordeal. He advised me to start school promising to see my father later.
Primary
School in January 1970: Having been advised and encouraged by Fr Simon
Okafor, I decided to suffer the war and martyrdom again. So in January 1970 I
begged one Bonboy Ogachi Okogba from my clan to take me to St Raphael Primary
School Awkuzu. He took me to Mr Albert Chilokwu (late) the Head master. He put
me in primary 2. I did so well in my first term examination in primary 2 that the
head master promoted me to primary 3. From primary 3 to primary 6, I was always
first in class. I was never second in class, I was in primary school from
January 1970 to June 1973 with Distinction in my First School Leaving
Certificate Examination.
Primary
School Sponsorship:
My father refused to spend any penny on me. I sponsored myself by making fans
and ropes, baskets, brooms, pestles, nkwu for fishing and selling them, using
the money for my school fees. I also did farm work for people on Saturdays and
during holidays who paid me some money. These were the sources of my income
with which I sponsored myself in primary school.
Entrance
Examination into the Seminary: As my love to serve at the altar of God
continued to increase I decided to be a priest. So in March 1973 I took
entrance examination into All Hallows Seminary Onitsha. I passed very well. Now
sponsorship was another big problem that faced me at this time. As God would
have it, all the male teachers from Dusogu Awkuzu who taught me in the primary
school went to my father and talked to him, begging him to allow me and sponsor
me in the seminary. God arrested this native doctor, Obidi Ezukwe, and to my
greatest surprise he not only allowed me to enter the seminary but he provided
everything in the prospectus and paid my school fees in all my years in the
junior seminary, from September 1973 to June 1978 when I finished in the
seminary.
A
Prefect-Teacher at All Hallows Seminary: I did my WAEC in May/June 1978 and did
very well. I was retained to teach, Literature in English, Mathematics and Igbo
as well as general choir master, under Fr. JohnBosco Akam, from 1978 to 1979.
Senior
Seminary:
I was among the seminarians selected to go to senior seminary by His Grace,
Archbishop F.A. Arinze in 1979. I collected my prospectus from the Rector Msgr
O.P. Achebe. On presentation of the prospectus to my father for money for the
items, his hostility started again. He told me plainly that he would never
allow me to be a priest. I went to Lagos, Kano, Enugu and Nkalagu to the people
I considered my relatives explaining my financial problems, but nobody gave me
anything, only promises.
In
October 1979 I went to Bigard Memorial Seminary Ikot Ekpene with (₦200.00) two
hundred naira Msgr O.P. Achebe gave me after my teaching at All Hallows
Seminary plus ninety five naira (₦95.00) I got from other people.
Seriously
Sick:
I had a lot of problems at Ikot Ekpene, no money to buy things like books,
provisions and other necessary things, and I had nobody to run to for help. I
was highly selective in my feeding from my childhood and so my greatest problem
at Ikot Ekpene was feeding. I faced malnutrition and consequently I became
seriously sick. Our Rector Fr Gregory Ochiagha told Clement Aghadinuno to take
me home for they thought I would die, I could not go home alone. I reached home
and Fr Raphael Ebedeagu my Parish Priest took me immediately to Borromeo
Hospital where I stayed for weeks.
Survived: I was available
in the parish at Awkuzu whenever on holidays, at morning masses, helping the
choir, teaching catechism etc. Many parishioners knew my plight and so they
were giving me money ranging from one Naira to a hundred Naira, that plus what
I got from my places of apostolic work sustained me for my eight years in the
senior seminary. It was a very hectic moment for me, a very difficult journey
to my priesthood but God helped me to survive.
Rev.
Peter Obidi:
To the glory of God who really called me to this holy office and sustained me
in the midst of the biting financial difficulties, I was ordained a deacon in
1986 and on 22nd August 1987 ordained a priest by the saintly
Archbishop Stephen Ezeanya.
Academic
Qualifications and Certificates:
·
Bachelor’s
Degree in Philosophy (B.Phil.) 1983
·
Bachelor’s
Degree in Theology (B.D.) 1987
·
Higher
National Diploma in Accountancy (HND) 1996
Priestly
Ministry since Ordination:
·
Parish
Vicar Sacred Heart Parish, Odoakpu Onitsha – Oct
1987- Oct 1989
·
Parish
Priest Our Lady’s Parish Umuoji – Oct1989
– Oct 1992
·
Parish
Priest St Charles Lilu – Oct1992
– Jan 1997
·
Archdiocesan
Accountant and Auditor Archbishops house Onitsha –Jan 1997 – Jan 2000
·
Parish
Priest St Anthony’s Nkpor – Jan
2000 – Jan 2003
·
Archbishops
house (2nd time) Archdiocesan Accountant and Auditor – Jan 2003 –
Jan 2006
·
Internal
Auditor Oluchukwu Microfinance Bank Ltd- April
2001
·
Part
time Lecturer Accounting Blessed Iwene Tansi Major Seminary Onitsha- Oct 2004 –
Oct 2006
·
St
Alphonsus Parish Nkpor Uno – Jan
2008 – Oct 2015
·
St
Mary’s Parish Awuda Nnobi – Oct
2015 – Oct 2019
·
St
Theophilus Parish Nkwelle Ezunaka – Oct
2019 to Date
Offices
Held:
·
Financial
Secretary Old Ogidi Episcopal Region. 2000
– 2003
·
Financial
Secretary (2nd time) Old Ogidi Episcopal Region 2008 – 2009
·
Financial
Secretary Archdiocesan Synod Committee. 2004
– 2005
·
Financial
Secretary Dunukofia Episcopal Region. 2010
– 2015
Chaplain
to Organizations and Statutory Bodies:
·
Archdiocesan
CGO 1997
– 2000
·
Archdiocesan
Apostleship of Prayer 1997
– 2000
·
Archdiocesan
Couples for Christ 2000
– 2003
·
Old
Umuoji CWO Zone 1990
– 1992
·
Old
Nkpor CWO Zone 2000
– 2003
·
Nkpor
CMO Zone 2008
– 2015
·
Nkpor
CWO Zone 2008
– 2015
Member
of some Archdiocesan Committees and Councils:
·
A
member of Presbyteral council 1993
– 2023
·
Member
of Archdiocesan Finance committee 1997
– 2000
·
Member
of College of Consultors 2000
– 2002
·
Member
committee for 2nd Papal visit to Nigeria February – March 1998